

Conquer Depression and Build Hope
DEPRESSION is anger turned inward, anger at the self. This may be a temporary reaction to circumstances. Or it may be a set of long-standing mind habits. Depression destroys the joy of life.
Chronic depression makes a person lose hope and stop trying. Sleep may take over. Eating may change. You avoid friends. Your world shrinks. You feel like a failure, a disappointment to others and to yourself. Depression can cripple you.
Hopelessness may stem from mental assumptions run amok. Old mind habits can trap a person, perhaps in self-criticism. Current difficult circumstances may be interpreted as “my fault” when actually there are many causes.
One well-tested approach to conquer depression is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. CBT and its’ offshoots suggest that you change your actions or your thoughts. Your feelings will change in response.
Mindfulness is another approach in depression counselling. It grew from the principles and practices of Buddhism. It may include that old staple of the nineteen seventies, meditation. Mindfulness and its derivatives help you to notice and accept the physical and mental symptoms of your feelings. You gain time to calm your emotions and think more objectively.
Different mental approaches can help you to break out of your automatic, self-critical pattern. A trusted counselor can dialogue with you to help you find what works for you.
RESOURCES
- Feeling Good, by David D. Burns
- I Don’t Want to Talk About It . . Male Depression, by Terrence Real
- Mind Over Mood, a workbook, by Christine Padesky & Dennis Greenberger
- Full Catastrophe Living, by Jon Kabat Zinn
- Stop Overreacting, by Judith P. Siegel
- The Mindful Way through Depression, by Williams, Teasdale, Segal, Kabat-Zinn
- The Noonday Demons: an Atlas of Depression, by Andrew Solomon
- The Power of Vulnerability, Brune’ Brown, youtube.com
- Canadian Coalition for Seniors’ Mental Health, depression/resources-older-adults-care-partners/
- Canadian Mental Health Association (CMHA), mentalhealthhelpline.ca/
- Niagara Health Services, Adult Outpatient Mental Health, group therapy
- Niagara Region Public Health, Mental Health, health_wellness/mentalhealth
- St Joseph’s Hospital, Hamilton, Mood Disorders Clinic, connect outpatient-programs