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Loss and Grief

Loss and Grief Counselling:

LOSS and GRIEF have as many forms as life has faces. Sudden loss brings shock. Long, drawn-out loss brings exhaustion. Loss changes the expectations of daily life. It brings disbelief and despair.

Divorce, a wayward child, loss of a job – all these events are earthquakes to our expectations of how our life should be.

Eventually we will grieve the loss of our own abilities, our health, our lifestyle, our future in this world.

Grieving may be open and vocal. It may be silent and withdrawn. It always hurts.

Losing a child, whether by separation or death, is like a cliff dropping off right before us. Losing a spouse or a close friend is like speaking into a dark, empty well.  The loss of a parent is facing our own, naked defenselessness.

Moving on after a loss to death feels ugly, unfair, like a betrayal of the one we loved. The grief is unbearable, but it is all we have of the one we love. We suffer, and it seems right that we should suffer.

The time does come when we cannot go on living in constant pain. We need to find other ways to fill the emptiness. We need new routines, new roles, and new interactions. We need to redirect our energy to sharing the gifts that once stayed between us and our loved one. We need to continue the memories of that person and that time, to make them count in today’s world.

Then the memories become part of our strength. We become different and better people for the love we received and gave and now pass on to others in the here and now.

GRIEF & BEREAVEMENT RESOURCES:

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  • A Grief Observed, by C. S. Lewis
  • Beginnings, a Book for Widows, by Betty J. Wylie
  • Beyond the Ridge, by Paul Goble (for children)
  • Healing After Loss, by Martha Whitmore Hickman
  • How to Go on Living When Someone You Love Dies, by Therese Rando
  • On Death and Dying, by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
  • The Empty Bed, by Susan Wallbank
  • The Grief Recovery Handbook, by John W. James & Russell Friedman
  • When Bad Things Happen to Good People, by Harold Kushner
  • Who Dies?, by Stephen and Ondrea Levine
  • Hospice Niagara

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